It’s painful to read (later) about the friends drifting apart. There is a “restraint” and Lizzy is sure there can never be “real confidence” between them once Charlotte accepts Mr Collin’s proposal. They maintain contact after the marriage:
..their correspondence was as regular and frequent as it ever had been: that it should be equally unreserved was impossible. Elizabeth could never address her without feeling that all the comfort of intimacy was over; and, though determined not to slacken as a correspondent, it was for the sake of what had been rather than what was.”
Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice, C26
Lizzy never really acknowledges her position of privilege, not only does she have more money than Charlotte, she’s younger and more attractive too. She begrudgingly accepts the marriage, though she never tells Charlotte, later (in a startling disclosure to someone she isn’t close with) she says to Darcy:
I am not certain that I consider her marrying Mr. Collins as the wisest thing she ever did. She seems perfectly happy, however; and, in a prudential light, it is certainly a very good match for her.”
Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice, C32
At Hunsford Lizzy gives “Charlotte all the credit” for the interior of the house and admires her way of managing Mr Collins, not only does she send him often into the garden to get him out of the house (allowing him to be forgotten) but:
When Mr. Collins said anything of which his wife might reasonably be ashamed…Charlotte wisely did not hear.”
Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice, C28
Charlotte has made a good choice for herself, she knew she didn’t have options and could manage Mr Collins which we see her doing. In this adaptation once Lizzy visits Hunsford it’s as though all is forgiven. But in the book it seems Lizzy never really forgives her for marrying Mr Collins rather than remaining a spinster in case someone better came along. It would be interested to see what choice Lizzy would have made in Charlotte’s circumstances.
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